A Delightful Tale

 My mother called me yesterday with a delightful tale to share.

She and my father live across the street from the city park in a small town in central Wisconsin that has many "goings on" all through out the year such as band concerts, family reunions, the Tator Trot 10k run/walk, ice skating, weddings, and of course, the annual Easter Egg Hunt.

Today is Easter and yesterday was the infamous egg hunt.

I'll set the stage for you... it's been a long, cold winter with a LOT of snow.  Every time the weatherman comes on TV he's reporting 2, 5, 9 inches of snowfall.  Some of it has melted, but not much.  On Friday when I talked to her she said the park department had been across the street that day with the equipment they use to groom the snowmobile trails.  She said it was funny watching them as they made paths through the snow throughout the park so the children could run on the trails to find their eggs at their annual egg hunt.

When she called yesterday she was laughing as she told me what happened.  The children all gathered for the big event and unfortunately it started to rain.  So they were all running along the trails through the snow, hunting for eggs and holding umbrellas to keep dry.  Then the rain turned to snow.  Big fluffy, wet flakes, coming down heavy and thick.  It made me laugh to picture the kids with umbrellas in one hand, Easter baskets in the other, as they ran around the park in a snow storm looking for colored eggs.

The part I loved best was hearing the delight in my mother's voice as she shared the story.

Only One Space? For Realz?

Did you know you only need to put ONE space following a period at the end of a sentence? Times have changed my friends from the typewriter days! Here I am reading away and thinking, "They only put one space.... they need another space at the end of their sentence.... goodness aren't they teaching kids anything these days?" A short time later I happened upon something (I don't even recall now what it was) that led me to believe something may be amiss.  So I went to two trusted resources,  my daughter and Grammar Girl, where they both had the same story.    

Here's a snippet of what Grammar Girl had to say:  (click here to read her entire post)  

Two Spaces After a Period? The Old Way

Here's the deal: Most typewriter fonts are what are called monospaced fonts. That means every character takes up the same amount of space. An "i" takes up as much space as an "m," for example. When using a monospaced font, where everything is the same width, it makes sense to type two spaces after a period at the end of a sentence to create a visual break. For that reason, people who learned to type on a typewriter were taught to put two spaces after a period at the end of a sentence. 

One Space After a Period? The New Way

But when you're typing on a computer, most fonts are proportional fonts, which means that characters are different widths. An "i" is more narrow than an "m," for example, and putting extra space between sentences doesn't do anything to improve readability.

Although how many spaces you use is ultimately a style choice, using one space is by far the most widely accepted and logical style. The Chicago Manual of Style (1), the AP Stylebook (2), and the Modern Language Association (3) all recommend using one space after a period at the end of a sentence. Furthermore, page designers have written in begging me to encourage people to use one space because if you send them a document with two spaces after the periods, they have to go in and take all the extra spaces out.

I know it's a hard habit to break if you were trained to use two spaces, but if you can, give one space a try.

I love that this world is always changing.  How refreshing!  The next thing you know we won't have cords on our telephones.  Oh wait...

Blind Excitement!

As I continue my attempt to walk the walk of eating healthy and moving more, I sometimes  track calories consumed and calories burned on "My Plate" which is part of the Livestrong.com website.  A couple days ago I logged in to start tracking (again!) and I had to chuckle when I updated my weight. It gave me this big, bold declaration that I'm sure is meant to be inspiring for those who are losing weight. I find it humorous that the program is just as pleased and excited when I went the other direction!

Blind Excitement = Excitement without really knowing what we are excited about.  

Out of the Mouth of Babes

 Mmmm mmmm mmmm.... Oatmeal cinnamon chip cookies sounded delicious.  Warm from the oven, all melty and soft tender cookie goodness.  YaUuuuummmmmmy!  It was right after lunch and I had a hankering for something sweet.  I figured I'd bake a half a batch and then give some to the neighbors.

I should warn you.  Cookies are not my friend.  We have tried and tried over the years, but we just plain ole don't get along well.  We are simply talking the art of baking here as the calories and what they do to my hips are a completely different post on a completely different blog for a completely different day.

No one asks me to bring cookies to the bake sale and I have a sneaky suspicion why.

Once when I was in high school and baked a batch of cookies, Peter, my little brother sat in his high chair, held out his pudgy little baby hand and firmly proclaimed, "Here, garbage."

Over the years I've baked various batches, some with more success than others and I came up with a number of possibilities for their failures:

• The ingredients were off because I licked the spoon and cooking is chemistry, right?
• I must have missed a minor ingredient 
• I used margarine instead of butter
• I was a tad short of flour
• The eggs were large, medium, small, round, oval, square, whatever
• Baking soda or baking powder - aren't they the same thing?
• The pan is old, too dark, has moisture between air layers, too thin, you name it
• Must have needed more "something"
• The oven heats "hot"
• The humidity is high (that's a new one I get to use!)

Cookies and I just don't get along

Well, today I used all the right ingredients. I mixed according to directions and never once licked the spoon. I used butter. I had enough flour, sugar and eggs. I used baking soda. I baked them at the correct temperature for exactly the correct amount of time. They should have been just fine. They should have been yummy and melty good.

I think perhaps Peter had it right all along. Oh, the wisdom that comes out of the mouth of babes.
    

now you see it/now you don't

I was in a training session a few months ago where a picture of a family in a less than desirable living environment was shown to the group and the question was posed, "What is lacking?" Naturally we came up with an extensive list of what was missing...what was lacking... what was "wrong" with the situation in the photo.

We didn't know the people. We didn't know their background. We didn't know their current situation, yet collectively we came up with a lengthy list of things we felt were lacking.

We were then shown the same photo and asked "What is here?"  Still knowing nothing more about the people in the photo than we did before, we came up with our list of what we thought was there, what was "right" about their situation.  Unfortunately the list was much shorter.

Let me repeat. We didn't know the people. We didn't know their background. We didn't know their current situation, yet we came up with a lengthy list of things we felt were lacking. 

Oh we can be so quick to see what we think is wrong, missing, or lacking. Our nature tends to make us quick to judge and slow to accept.

If only we could open our hearts wide and and allow our minds to see all that is good.  

A Really Great Guy is Waiting

Today I received word that a friend of mine did not make it through emergency aortic dissection surgery.  My heart is heavy and I am filled with sadness for his family and the void created by the loss of this good man.

We are both Coordinators for In Mission Together where he has worked for a number of years with the partner churches scattered about Eurasia and the United States while I am just beginning to work with the Cameroon and Guinea partners. He has been organizing a two day event for those churches and I was responsible for setting up the online event registration.  I have an email folder filled with event information and messages of approval, support and encouragement from him.

I went for a run this afternoon and my mind was first filled with a million thoughts about him and then..... completely blank. I see his smiling picture and can't believe he's gone.

I'm at a loss for words but I thought you should know there is a really great guy waiting for us when it's our turn.

Philosophical Cookies

Ha!  What a great thought!

If a tree falls in the woods and no one is around to hear it, did it make noise?

If no one was around to blog about "IT", did "IT" happen?

If no one knows that you reached out to help someone in need, does it count? Do you get credit at the pearly gates?

Does a rainbow exist if no one sees it?

Do numbers really exist? Can you buy into the whole "to infinity" thing!?

Does this blog exist if no one reads it?

If no one sees you eat those cookies, that hot fudge sundae, that leftover pizza, do the calories count?

The answer must be no! Right? If you can't see it, surely it doesn't exist. Right? After all, isn't that what some people claim when it comes to the debate of whether God exists or not?

Goodness gracious! I've certainly meandered into a very philosophical area this morning without really intending to!

For the sake of a short post (and goodness knows if you want real answers to those questions you can find resources much more reliable than little ole me) I'll just sum it up as follows.

It's been heard. It counts. The colors are glorious. The numbers add up and keep on going. You can certainly bet those "secret" calories will make their appearance, most likely where you least desire it.

My two cents...if its real to you - if it's in your heart, mind and soul - then that's what counts.  All the way to infinity.    

Calming the Storm

Shortly after we moved to Florida the news was abuzz about Hurricane Issac. We watched with interest as they predicted Issac to hit land about 60 miles to our east, however as the storm closed in the trajectory changed to hit just west of us. According to the experts our area would be in for some nasty weather.

Being a first timer, I researched hurricanes so I'd know what to expect and we assembled all the suggested supplies - bottled water, batteries, flashlights, candles, canned food, to name a few. We stored our lawn furniture in the garage and we hung the protective coverings over our windows. The storm was predicted to hit land on Tuesday in the late afternoon and we were ready.

After Harry left for work I turned on the news for updates on the storm and was naively surprised at the accompanying report of tornado activity as well, which actually put me more on edge than the hurricane.  As the day progressed I became more and more uncomfortable  and even a little bit scared as Harry was 45 minutes away and would have to drive home on a route where tornado activity was amiss.

I sat there and started chatting with God about this whole situation.  After all, he calmed the storm for the frightened Disciples as their boat tossed in the violent sea so why couldn't he do that for me as well?

At that point it occurred to me... did he really calm the physical sea itself or did he calm their sea of fear and therefore their perception of danger? 

I don't know that I'll ever have the answer to that question because this is what played out over the next 24 hours.

First, I was calm after praying and I regained my sense of comfort that all would be well. Secondly, we hardly had any wind or rain hit our area at all.  We've had more action on a typical "rainy" day.  You see, as I watched the storm cross over, we were always the area between the bands of the active storm.  It hit to our east and to our west but we were always in the quiet place.                

The Business of Life

The sign proudly stated they've been cooking up 23 varieties for over 50 years and I decided if they've been flipping hotcakes for that long they must know what they're doing so in I went. 

It was a busy pancake house. The staff was hustling and bustling about serving up the best sweet potato pancakes I've ever tasted. The only ones tastier are those cooked on weekend mornings by my husband, but its not fair to compare the two  because he puts an extra dose of love into the pancakes he makes for me. 

I sat down and the cheery waitress was quick to bring me coffee and take my order. Yes, she definitely thought the sweet potato pancakes were an excellent choice so after her enthusiastic endorsement that's what I ordered. 

The two young mothers next to me hurriedly gathered their things as one of their infants protested at the top of his lungs. Based on his age and loud bellowing it was clear to me he wasn't old enough to eat pancakes and thus was not  happy and content like his older sister.   I'm sure calming him was his mother's highest priority as she hurried out the door. 

The tables behind me were pushed together with two families crowded around. The  dads were chuckling as they tried to convince their young children to come to work with them. Surprisingly the youngsters didn't jump at their father's offer for them to sit quietly at his office for four hours while he worked.  Upon asking his wife for the guest check she quietly informed him his brother insisted on picking up the tab today. 

The clientele was a great mix of college students, adults and families an indication of the large medical facility located nearby on campus.   I whispered a quick prayer that none of the people were here because a loved one was seriously ill across the street.   I scanned the crowd and saw no such traces on their faces. 

There were discussions of calories, dogs, changes in lifestyle per the doctor's orders,  investments and finances.   Various opinions on matters of the world. 

Life was in full swing at this pancake shop.  This is what people do each day...they go about the business of life. 

GRAND Babyliciousness!

"Busy" has kept me from posting recently (most of December in fact!) and this week's schedule is quite filled as well, so I'll just share a little GRAND babyliciousness to tide you over for a bit.